Matt Miller is a successful NFL Bleacher Report Columnist, one of our very own ZenMasters, and husband to the award winning photographer, Jessica Edwards. As a photographer, it may be hard to imagine what it is like to not be the one behind the camera. Others may wonder what it would be like to date or be married to a photographer. Your questions are answered today as Matt shares his experiences and thoughts, offers advice and tips, and sheds light on what it is like to be the spouse of a professional photographer.
The Hubby-Tographer, by Matt Miller
When I was asked some time ago to write a blog post talking about the experiences involved with being married to an award winning photographer, Jessica Edwards, I really wasn’t sure what direction to go with the post. I could use this outlet to subtly complain about the life as a husband to a photographer, or as a way to give advice to others in my position. After carefully reviewing the consequences of said posts, I’m going a different direction here.
My first title for this blog post was, “The Life of a Second Shooter, Reflector Holder, Secretary, Ice-Breaker, Conversationalist, Accountant, Builder, Gopher, Catch-All Husband.” That may be too long, but it’s the most accurate description of what my wife would like from a photographer’s husband. I’m probably somewhere around 10 percent complete.

The life of a photographer’s spouse should be broken down into categories, if only to offer a little organization in what is generally a very unorganized life. I say that with complete love and a good sense of humor. Call it “right-brain-ism”, if you will. My wife, as amazing as she is (going for brownie points here), is a smidge unorganized. I’m sure as a photographer the reader can relate.
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