That's amazing. When I first got started doing online sales, I called our local State of Florida guy who handles sales tax. He had worked with my husband's business on other sales tax matters. This is directly with the Department of Revenue in Florida. He informed me, just as your understanding was, that if it was an online sale, regardless of where it was shipped, if I did not handle it in any way, then the online company (Zenfolio, Zazzle, or whomever) was responsible for any sales tax.
If, on the other hand, I had any hands-on participatation with the product getting to the customer (i.e., Mpix printed it and shipped to me and then I packed it and sent to the customer), and the customer was in the state of Florida, then I am responsible for sales tax. If the customer in that situation is out of the state of Florida, I am not responsible for sales tax.
That is the way I have been operating. So, basically for that reason, I do not have anything shipped to me that is going to a customer. Lot less headaches that way for me. I would be interested to see how this pans out for you with the IRS. Sorry to hear about the audit. I don't wish that on ANYONE. Good luck with it all.
≈ Carolyn ≈
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